Perhaps I am too young to think about
marriage and family, but actually, my thoughts about marriage and family have
changed a lot these years.
When I was little, I just thought that
marriage is a very simple thing. You just have your wedding ceremony, and then
you are married. After that, you have children and live with your wife for rest
of your life. Now, when I think about this, I can’t stand laughing at myself.
How naïve and innocent I was at that time!
When I grew up, I gradually realized that
marriage is not such an easy and simple thing. I realized that actually the
simple, easy and beautiful thing is dating with the girlfriend, not living with
the wife. And I was afraid of something like the seven year itch, which means both
the couples might feel boring about the marriage after seven years. This is
terrible! What’s more, I also knew that some young ladies got married for
money, not for love! As a result, now, I am a bit afraid of marriage as it has
left me bad impression!
I think maybe one hundred people have one hundred opinions about marriage and love. Actually, they are really two different things. Love is just a feeling while marriage means responsiblity. But do not be afraid of marriage, because in my view, it is the most sacred thing you and your lover will share together through your whole life.:)
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