Blog2)-Ms Lim-Zheng Siyuan-My understanding of love

In my opinion, to love is one thing, but to live together is another one. For a couple, it is not easy to live together. In the marriage life, the husband and the wife should do a lot of things, not only love each other. As time passes, they will know more about each other because of long time of living together, and they will see the weaknesses of each other. If they cannot tolerate and forgive, they will always quarrel, and end up their marriage with divorce. Love cannot solve this problem, because their love will lose passion sooner or later. So they must learn to tolerate and sacrifice. Then when they become old, looking backward to their marriage life, they will find that their love between lovers turn into the love between families gradually, and to tolerate and to sacrifice become a kind of habit.